Be the Story

In the film “Groundhog Day”, that modern-day masterpiece about the force of Karma, Reincarnation, and TSK in daily life, Weatherman Phil is stuck reliving the same day over and over and over.  His “story” becomes his daily attempt to attract Rita, but there is never enough time before the day ends–and then the next morning, he is stuck once more in the old story with his old karma and–like Sysiphus–has to roll his old personality up the mountain side once more.

His deliverance comes when he finally accepts his life of repetition and makes the most of it: learns to play the piano, helps everyone whose path his crosses, and–in terms of this week’s wonderful reading–fully inhabits the story in which he finds himself.

There is one charming scene where Phil is finally behaving more naturally with Rita and she is consequently spending the afternoon in his room.  He is showing her how to toss playing cards across the room into a hat.  He has had a lot more practice at this, because he is living the same day over and over and over.

“Be the hat,” he urges her.

“Is this how you would choose to spend eternity?” she asks

“Now you know,” he responds.

Perhaps as we toss the cards we have been dealt into the hat of our dreams, we can do worse than incorporate Phil’s advice, and learn to . . .

“Be the story”

 

About Michael Gray

I first started studying TSK in the mid 1980's and have since attended a number of retreats and workshops at the Nyingma Institute, in both TSK and Buddhist themes. I participated in the life-changing Human Development Training Program in 1991, and upon returning to Albuquerque co-founded an organization, Friends in Time (with a friend who has Lou Gehrig's Disease), which continues to serve people with similiar disabilities. I contributed an essay to "A New Way of Being"--the last one in the book--in which I describe how learning to honor who I have been has broadened and deepened my openness to present experience. I live in New Mexico with my wife and two sons.
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3 Responses to Be the Story

  1. Bruce says:

    Michael, this was wonderful — loved it! I recall the general outlines of the movie, and remember enjoying it, but you brought it back with more vividness (and meaningful ‘punch’) than I remember experiencing even while watching it.

  2. csherwood says:

    This is fabulous, Michael. Groundhog Day is one of my favourite films and I love the way you point out the TSK parallels/resonances. Thank you.
    Caroline

  3. Beautiful! Loved every word of your story-within-a-story, leading me to deeper meaning relevant to my life.
    David

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